Hint: The photos will tell you what I like to spend my time on.
I've been asking myself that every night at about supper time. Then at the kids' bedtime I'm asking myself, "Why am I so tired & what did I do today?" My hubby is probably asking himself the same thing although he's wise enough not to say it out loud! So I've been thinking about it & decided to write myself this post. Next time I'm wondering I can look it up & answer my own questions. I've decided that the bulk of my time gets eaten up by two things. (Being on the computer is not one of them. I multitask when I'm here. Just look at my keyboard & you can see that I almost always eat when I'm here. My hubby was not happy to find that dried chocolate is the reason two keys were sticking together. I'm also nursing the baby as I write this. No wonder my neck & shoulders are sore.) Anyhoo, the biggest consumers of time in my life are; 1) All that has to happen in order to get the kids to & from school. 2) Getting everyone in the family fed & the cooking & cleaning that entails. I'll give you an abbreviated version of a typical day.
- I finish the baby's early morning feeding at about 6am
- 7am - 8:30 is entirely consumed by getting the kids up, dressed, fed & to school.
- If I'm lucky I have from 8:30 to 9:00 to fix & eat my own breakfast.
- It's 9:00 & time to feed the baby again.
- Now I have from the end of baby's feeding until about 11:00 to throw in a load of laundry, unload the dishwasher etc.
- From 11:15 to 11:40 I'm busy getting Ayla from school.
- It's almost noon. Time to get Ayla her lunch & feed the baby again.
- Thankfully from about 1:00 to 4:00 every day the baby is napping. This gives me time to fix, eat & clean up my own lunch. I also continue with laundry & whatever else has to be done.
- At 4:00 Micah gets off the bus. That means it's time to get the kids a snack. Usually the baby wakes up hungry during this time period as well.
- Between 4:30 & 5:00 I'm done feeding Kaia & it's time to move into the kitchen & prepare supper.
- After we eat we need to clean up the mess. I feel ready to go to bed by then, but I go ahead & finish cleaning the kitchen. Then it's time to get lunches & snacks ready for the next school & work day.
- 7:00 time to do homework with Micah & get him & Ayla off to bed.
- 8:00 the kids are in bed & often times I am heading that way shortly.
So you see, it's mostly all about food. I do have to confess to one thing though. Whenever the baby isn't eating or sleeping you can often find me just sitting. I can't seem to stop holding, kissing & snuggling with Kaia. She's talking & smiling now. I just can't resist trying to get those sounds & smiles from her as often as I can. So, that's our life right now. I'm tired & lots of things aren't done, but I can't say I regret one minute of it! I'm just realizing I didn't say much about Craig. He helps a lot when he's in the house. But, a great majority of his time is spent messing with our wood supply. It seems like there is always wood to cut, stack & split. Since this is how we stay warm, I'm not complaining!
- I finish the baby's early morning feeding at about 6am
- 7am - 8:30 is entirely consumed by getting the kids up, dressed, fed & to school.
- If I'm lucky I have from 8:30 to 9:00 to fix & eat my own breakfast.
- It's 9:00 & time to feed the baby again.
- Now I have from the end of baby's feeding until about 11:00 to throw in a load of laundry, unload the dishwasher etc.
- From 11:15 to 11:40 I'm busy getting Ayla from school.
- It's almost noon. Time to get Ayla her lunch & feed the baby again.
- Thankfully from about 1:00 to 4:00 every day the baby is napping. This gives me time to fix, eat & clean up my own lunch. I also continue with laundry & whatever else has to be done.
- At 4:00 Micah gets off the bus. That means it's time to get the kids a snack. Usually the baby wakes up hungry during this time period as well.
- Between 4:30 & 5:00 I'm done feeding Kaia & it's time to move into the kitchen & prepare supper.
- After we eat we need to clean up the mess. I feel ready to go to bed by then, but I go ahead & finish cleaning the kitchen. Then it's time to get lunches & snacks ready for the next school & work day.
- 7:00 time to do homework with Micah & get him & Ayla off to bed.
- 8:00 the kids are in bed & often times I am heading that way shortly.
So you see, it's mostly all about food. I do have to confess to one thing though. Whenever the baby isn't eating or sleeping you can often find me just sitting. I can't seem to stop holding, kissing & snuggling with Kaia. She's talking & smiling now. I just can't resist trying to get those sounds & smiles from her as often as I can. So, that's our life right now. I'm tired & lots of things aren't done, but I can't say I regret one minute of it! I'm just realizing I didn't say much about Craig. He helps a lot when he's in the house. But, a great majority of his time is spent messing with our wood supply. It seems like there is always wood to cut, stack & split. Since this is how we stay warm, I'm not complaining!